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Can Storytelling Be Harmful?
What We Keep Along The Way
Stories are the threads that weave through the fabric of our lives. Passed down through generations, stories shape how we see the world and how we navigate it. Whether through fear, love, empathy, or faith, the tales told to us help form our perspectives—often without us even realizing it. The way we tell stories has the power to uplift or tear down. And in a world where words can lead to both life and death, we must be conscious of the stories we choose to share, and how we tell them.
The Legacy of Stories
From the moment we’re born, we are introduced to stories. Our parents tell us bedtime tales, our teachers share parables, and our friends recount their experiences. These stories aren't just entertainment—they are lessons, warnings, hopes, and dreams passed from one generation to the next. In some cases, they are part of our cultural heritage; in others, they are personal memories shaped by the particular values and experiences of the storyteller.
But these stories are not neutral. They carry with them the beliefs, fears, hopes, and biases of the people who tell them. Just as we pass down the traditions of our families—recipes, customs, rituals—we also pass down the emotional tones of those stories. If our parents told us about the dangers of the world, we may grow up with an instinct to be fearful or guarded. If we were raised with stories of courage and resilience, we might approach challenges with confidence. In every retelling, the essence of the message lives on.
The Ripple Effect
Stories have the power to influence our emotions, perceptions, and decisions in profound ways. When fear is the dominant theme, it can distort our view of the world, convincing us that danger lurks around every corner. Consider the countless cautionary tales parents tell their children: “Don’t talk to strangers,” “Don’t trust anyone online,” “The world is a dangerous place, you have to protect yourself.” While some of these lessons are necessary, they also instill a sense of fear that can shape how we interact with others. If we grow up hearing that people are inherently untrustworthy or that the world is unsafe, it can be difficult to approach life with an open heart.
On the other hand, stories of love, empathy, and hope have the opposite effect. They teach us to believe in others, to extend kindness, and to trust in the goodness of humanity. Think of the stories passed down in families about perseverance, about how grandparents overcame hardship, or how a close friend showed unwavering support during a difficult time. These are the stories that lift us up, reminding us that we are capable of overcoming obstacles, that we are not alone, and that love is a force that transcends even the toughest of circumstances.
But the stories we tell aren't just about the emotions of the past. They shape the present and future as well. When we pass down stories of survival and triumph, we empower others to do the same. Conversely, when we pass down stories of hatred, prejudice, or fear of the "other," we perpetuate cycles of division and pain. We have to ask ourselves: What do we want to pass along to the next generation?
The Responsibility of Storytelling
The stories we tell today have lasting effects on the generations that follow. We have a responsibility to ensure that our words are used to build and uplift, not to break down and harm. This means being conscious of the stories we pass on to our children, our friends, and our communities.
When we allow our own irrational fears—whether about race, gender, or culture—to seep into the stories we tell, we perpetuate those fears in others. We also deny them the opportunity to form their own perspectives, untainted by prejudice or distrust. Conversely, when we share stories that emphasize empathy, understanding, and growth, we help create a world where people are more likely to live in harmony and support one another.
The power of storytelling lies not just in the content of the story, but in the intent behind it. Are we telling stories to control, to instill fear, or to manipulate? Or are we telling stories to help others see their own potential, to inspire them to act with kindness and courage, to challenge the darkness with light?
The Challenge
We all have stories. We’ve been shaped by them, and we continue to shape others with them. As we look toward the future, we must ask ourselves: What kind of stories do we want to tell? What do we want the next generation to carry forward? We can’t erase the stories of fear or loss, but we can choose to balance them with stories of hope, joy, and empowerment.
As storytellers, we have the power to make a difference. Let us use that power wisely. Let us tell stories that don’t just reflect the world as it is, but that help create the world as it could be. A world where love, empathy, and courage are passed down, not fear, hatred, and division. A world where we lift each other up, instead of pulling each other down.
Your Challenge:
Next time you share a story, pause for a moment. What’s the message you want to pass on? Is it one of fear, or one of strength? Is it a story that builds walls, or one that builds bridges? Choose stories that empower. Choose stories that inspire. Choose stories that, when passed down, will help others find the courage to live their truth and the compassion to see others as they are. Because the stories we keep along the way shape the future we create.
Conclusion
We can’t wait to share more about what we’ve learned about storytelling with you, but there are also other amazing things we can learn from the stories the film industry is currently producing, so stay tuned for more analysis and discussion about the films and tv shows we’ve been excited about.